teachable
June 19, 2006
it has been my habit (and an exciting moment) to open my email especially reading on my Daily Encounter… the refelections never stop to amaze me… and i can’t just stop my self but to share (and store) them here in my blog and post in the bulletin. the following reflection is an affirmation to a recent topic i was discussion with a friend… ah, works both ways…
Teachable
Seeing is not always believing. Old beliefs as well as old habits die hard. For centuries people believed Aristotle’s opinion that the heavier an object, the faster it would fall to earth.
I am not an engineer but according to a report I read, in 1589 Galileo challenged Aristotle’s teaching. He invited learned professors to the base of the Leaning Tower of Pisa. Galileo went to the top of the tower and at exactly the same moment pushed off a ten-pound and a one-pound weight.
Both landed at the same instant, but the professors still wouldn’t believe what they saw. They insisted Aristotle was right.
To move ahead in life and to grow—intellectually, emotionally and spiritually—it is important that we examine all our beliefs, test them, hold to the true and discard the false. Admittedly, this is much easier said than done but done it must be if we are to keep learning and growing. Unless we are open to and willing to change, we get stuck in our ways and cease to grow.
We don’t read much about Apollos in the Bible but he was a contemporary of the Apostle Paul. He was a very gifted and educated man "with a thorough knowledge of the Scriptures." But he only knew about John the Baptist’s baptism. So when Priscilla and Aquila heard him speak, they explained the gospel message to him more completely.
The end result was that Apollos was willing to listen, was teachable, made the necessary changes in his beliefs and as a result became a "great help" to the church (v. 27).
"When Priscilla and Aquila heard him [Apollos], they invited him to their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately" (Acts 18:26, NIV).
Suggested prayer: "Dear God, please confront me with every issue in my life I need to be aware of, help me to be teachable, and give me the courage to make necessary changes in my life where needed. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen."
delays
June 8, 2006
got this from Daily Encounter…. this has been my struggle… i’m thankful that i can go back to this article to remind myself of its effects in my life as a Christian
Procrastination
One of the greatest time wasters is procrastination. Many of us tend to put off those tasks we don’t like doing or are afraid to tackle. Then we feel frustrated or guilty because we’re not getting them done. And the more frustrated we get, the more we procrastinate and so on.
How do we get out of this cycle of defeat?
Oftentimes there’s a deeper reason people keep putting things off. If this is so for you, ask God to show you the cause and work on that. In the meantime you can make a start by changing your self-talk. If you keep telling yourself that you are hopeless at getting things done on time, you will reinforce this belief and keep acting accordingly. Remember, what the mind dwells on the body acts on!
So, first of all change your self-talk by saying things to yourself like, "With God’s help I can get things done on time."
Next, make a list of things to do today. List them in order of priority and tackle them one at a time. Make sure your list is realistic. If you list more than you can do, you will end up feeling discouraged and reinforce your tendency to put things off.
Third, set a positive goal. Make up your mind you are going to get each task done, giving yourself a realistic time limit in which to achieve your goal.
Fourth, plan your work then work your plan. Have a definite plan of attack and follow that plan. Take cleaning your house, garage, or yard for example. Imagine it to be a giant clock and start cleaning at the 12 o’clock position and keep working around the clock. Don’t jump from one room or corner or from one task to another until each section is completed. Keep to your plan and pretty soon a sense of achievement will make the task more encouraging and enjoyable.
Fifth, whatever the task is, break it down into "bite-size" proportions. When I first thought about writing a book, the task seemed overwhelming. A friend suggested to think about writing it just one page at a time. I did. And the book got finished.
Sixth, reward yourself in some positive way for getting your task or tasks done on time. This will help reinforce your new belief that you are a person who gets things done when they need to be done.
Seventh, pray-especially if you are a compulsive procrastinator. Pray that God will help you to face the root cause of your problem. If you pray this prayer and truly mean it, God will show you if you genuinely want him to.
"Work hard and become a leader, be lazy and never succeed" (Proverbs 12:24, TLB).
Suggested prayer: "Dear God, with my procrastination problem I have (and any other problem) please give me the insight to see the cause of it, find the help I need to resolve it, and the courage to do all that is in my control to master it instead of allowing it to master me. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen."
the value of friendship
June 5, 2006
got this from Daily Encounter, an online subscription for daily reflection… this is honor of all the friends that God gave me…
The Value of a Friend
"A friend loves at all times" (Proverbs 17:17, NIV).
The following description of a friend came from an English magazine: "A true friend is one who has the courage to disagree with us when [we are] in the wrong, and advise us for our own good, rather than let his sympathy or sentimentality cause him to agree."
Charles Spurgeon once said, "Friendship is one of the sweetest joys of life. Many might have failed beneath the bitterness of their trial had they not found a friend."
Samuel Johnston said, "We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is that last drop which makes it run over, so in a series of kindnesses, there is at least one that makes the heart run over."
And Dr. Alfred Adler, internationally known psychiatrist, based the following conclusions on a careful analysis of thousands of clients: "The most important task imposed by religion has always been, ‘Love thy neighbor….’ It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow man who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury on others. It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring."
Oh the priceless value of having at least one deep abiding friendship. Thank God for the gift of friendship.
Suggested prayer: "And thank you God for Jesus—the friend of sinners. Help me also to be a friend to fellow sinners and spread your love and forgiveness everywhere I go. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen."
learning….
June 4, 2006
this prayer is continually transforming my life… when things around me goes wrong, this helped me keep my sanity, take hold of my heart and for a time being… cry til my spirit gets the rest it needs in order to be ready to continue the journey… my pleasure of sharing this very meaningful prayer…. may God console your heart through this prayer as it continues to console me….
Learning like Christ….
Teach me my Lord, to be sweet and gentle in all events of life, in disappointments, in the thoughtlessness of those I trusted, in the unfaithfulness of those whom I relied on. Let me put myself aside to think of the happiness of others, to hide my little pains and heartaches, so that it may be the only one to suffer from them.
Teach me to profit by the sufferings that come across my path. Let me use it that it may make me patient not irritable. That it may make me broad in my forgiveness; not narrow, haughty and overbearing.
May no one be less good for having come within my influence. No one less pure, less true, less, kind, less noble for having been a fellow traveler in our journey toward Eternal Life.
As I go my rounds from one distraction to another, let me whisper from time to time, a word of love and thanks to You. May my life be lived in the supernatural, full of power for good and strong in its purpose of sanctity. Amen.